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Where You Are Is Just Right
Where You Are Is Just Right by @ShiuanButler I really love this quote and often needed to be reminded of it: Where you currently are is just where you need to be. There isn’t somewhere else you’re supposed to be. Whether you didn’t win that award, or you missed that...
“Oh I Don’t Know…. That’s Fine… I Don’t Mind…”
"Oh I Don’t Know…. That’s Fine… I Don’t Mind..." by @ShiuanButler I heard this quote from Marie Forleo, entrepreneur and business coach, recently, “I can help you get anything you want; but you have to tell me what that is.” It sounds kind of trite or obvious but is...
Gratitude as an Attitude
Gratitude as an Attitude by @ShiuanButler I recently noticed that a lot of successful leaders I was following talked about practicing gratitude as their everyday essential routine. Then couple days ago, I made another connection. Marie Forleo mentioned that “as long...
Top 10 Reasons Why You Should Hire Me
Top 10 Reasons Why You Should Hire Me by @ShiuanButler Last week I listed top 10 reasons why you shouldn’t hire me as your life coach. They weren’t meant to be facetious but in all sincerity. No one’s judging here, but it’s important to know what’s a good fit for you...
Queen Latifah is a Great Client
by @ShiuanButler No, Queen Latifah unfortunately is not my client. But I recently picked up her book, Put On Your Crown: Life-Changing Moments on the way to Queendom, published a few years ago, and really appreciated her honesty, transparency, and frankness in...
Top 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Hire Me As Your Life Coach
Top 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Hire Me As Your Life Coach: by @ShiuanButler 1. You don’t like being told what to do. 2. You say you want things to change but you don’t really want to do what it takes to change it. 3. You want to keep believing your assumptions and...
Money Isn’t All That Important
Money Isn’t All That Important by @Shiuan Butler Now don't get me wrong, as an entrepreneur I understand very well cashflow is oxygen, as a certain someone keeps reminding me. And if you are sick or dying, medical help and being able to pay for it is very important....
Seize the Now
By @ShiuanButler I don’t have any kids and I absolutely love spending time with my client’s 2 year-old kid. Why? Because he makes me smile and laugh the whole time we’re together. He makes me feel special. Who’s counseling whom here? He makes me feel loved. And he...
Self Not Salary Negotiators
I believe we are natural negotiators as kids. We negotiate with our parents, trying to buy new toys, or stay longer at the playground. We are born negotiators. It is only later, as adults, we start to grow more timid. What will people think? What will our boss think?...
A Whale of a Time
by @ShiuanButler This weekend I had the wonderful opportunity to visit a whaling museum. In addition to seeing the fun artifacts, and learning about the tragic history of whales in this country (only 10-60 whales in 1935 when hunting was finally banned), I learned...
Are You Indecisive? (Part 2)
by @ShiuanButler Oftentimes as women, we like to get other people's opinions when we're trying to make a decision. We're not completely sure of ourselves or we try to weigh all of the factors so we turn to others. There's nothing wrong with having a board or a...
Indecisiveness (Part 1)
by @ShiuanButler I've recently been toying with my indecisiveness pattern. I've decided for the next period, I will practice being decisive, whether I feel decisive or not. Simply make a decision. It kind of feels like jumping off a cliff. Oh my god--- what might...
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